Compatibility in Marriage and Divorce in Astrology

Compatibility in Marriage and Divorce in Astrology

''By all means, marry. If you get a good wife, you will become happy; if you get a bad one, you will become a philosopher'' ~ SOCRATES

Marriage is one of the best relationships one goes through during the life time. Divorce is a state in which a husband and wife discover that they do not have compatibility or proper understanding due to non co-operation of the other one. Divorce is the fastest growing problem in our society today. In these modern times, there are a large number of couples who don’t have a happy married life. They all face different issues in their marriages and most of them seek advice from their lawyers for Divorce. There is no classical combination in astrology for divorce. But some points need to be noticed while doing match making of horoscopes.

At the time of marriage people think only horoscope matching on software or numerology matching or sun sign or moon sign matching is enough for a happy marriage. But to have a happy married life these things are not enough. There is a process to check quality of marriage or quality of married life in astrology but it’s not as easy as matching horoscopes or numerology matching etc. Horoscope matching is a part of Marriage astrology but it does not give 100% result about the couple. It just gives less than 50% information regarding couple match making. In majority of the marriage’s that take place, normally horoscopes of the boy and girl are matched and then marriages are solemnized. Despite the horoscopes being matched and got good points than too divorce takes place. There are various reasons for divorce and there are various yogas in astrology.

Causes of Divorce

Main causes of divorce are impotency & unable to bear son, more wives where the spouse lives in a separate country to earn one’s living, premarital relationship and post marital relationships, physical assault, dowry and financial issues etc.

Compatibility in Marriage

Matching of the horoscopes of the boy and girl's is important for marital bliss. Proper matching should ensure good marital life. A proper way of match making is to check the position of Moon, Venus and Mars position in the boy and girl's horoscope as these three planets play an important role making marriage long live. Then check moon signs and ascendant signs. If ascendant lords are in good relationship it is good. Also check relationship between Moon signs in the same way. 7^th house also have great significance in marriage as it is the house of union between two persons. It’s a house of marriage. If 7^th house have benefic influence then it is good for marriage/married life but if there is malefic influence then it can cause threat to married life.

Marriage Conflicts Leading To Separation & Divorce (between married couple and couple without marriage)

The Natural malefic planets like Saturn, Mars, Rahu and Katu are the agents of Divorce. Sun acts as a catalyst in divorce cases when associated with ascendant or 7th house specially when Sun is in enemy sign under malefics than only it gives divorce. The houses 2nd, 4th, 5th 7th 8th, 11th and 12th are concerned with marital affairs. When these houses become weak and their lords associated with or aspected by malefics they signify trouble in married life. When malefic planets are placed in the crucial houses like Mars occupying the 2nd, 4th, 7th, 8th or 12th house is sure sign of trouble. In Vedic astrology a horoscope with Mars in these positions is marked as “Maanglik” which means one with Martian blemish. This position of Mars signifies, divorce, separation or death of partner if other malefic influences also there.

Position of 7^th lord and karaka of marriage is most important for marriage. If 7^th lord or Venus is in malefic houses and afflicted with malefics separations may occur. If 7^th lord is debilitated and afflicted by malefics or in close conjunction with Sun then also separation may occur. When there is malefic influence on 7^th house or Venus or Mars or 7^th lord is hemmed with malefics or in conjunction with malefics then also separation may occur. 7th Lord and Venus conjunction with malefics is more important. This is not for married couple only but also for the people undergoing relations without marriage.

Mars also play an important role in marriage. It is the significator of energy. Its influence on 7^th house is not considered good. When Mars is placed in 1^st, 4^th, 7^th, 12^th houses it influence 7^th house and if there are other malefic influences also without benefic aspect then it can ruined marriage which can lead to divorce.  Mars placement from Venus in those houses also considered bad specially in Kendra to Venus. Alongwith this, Venus position in gandmool naksharas or in Rahu nakshatras or in Sun nakshatras also add fuel to this. Saturn impact on Venus is also not considered good. More malefic influence on 7^th house can lead to divorce. Venus conjunction with Sun or Mars may also end up in divorce if no benefic influence is there. This position of planets and 7^th house must also be checked from Moonsign and also in navansha chart. 2nd and 8^th houses show the happiness from its previous houses when associated with malefics can also lead to divorce. 

Major opportunities for divorce are bhukti period of Ketu, karaka for disconnection, disorientation, lord of the 12th from ascendant or Moon house may also cause separation. 12^th from ascendant  cause loss or detachment. 6^th house lord and planet influencing 6^th house may also lead to separation. 

In kp system significators of houses 6,8,12,10 are to be considered for divorce if separation from the partner due to disharmony or difference of opinion. But if quarrel is involved then 8^th house is also to be considered.

This can also be checked with KAS astrology also. If there is more difference between the points of ascendant and 7^th from ascendant, Moon, Sun, Venus problems in married life expected depend upon the benefic and malefic influence of planets on Venus, Moon and 7^th house and of course ascendant.

Therefore, it is very advisable to get the horoscope analyzed and proper marriage compatibility be done before going to enter for the most important and sophisticated institute of marriage. 

Remedies

Remedies can be done for malefic influence. Remedies will mitigate the bad effect of planets. Horoscopes should be matched before marriage. Remedies, if any, in such situations should be performed properly. Actually, all these points should be taken in to account only at the time of matching the horoscopes of both i.e. before marriage. After marriage, if such situation arises, it is sometimes hard to rebuild the relationship even with the remedies unless there is some auspicious planetary combination present in the chart. Do consult to the astrologer for proper remedies.

Example Chart One 

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