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‘kknh cpiu esa ;k ipiu esa

dqaMyh ls tkus fookg dk ;ksx % ‘kh?kz fookg ds ;ksx rFkk fookg esa foyEc ds ;ksx

tksfM;kWa LoxZ esa curh gS A ;g rks ge lHkh tkurs gSa o ekurs Hkh gSa A ifr&ifRu nksuksa lkFk esa [kq’k jgsaxs ;k nq[kh ;s mu nksuksa ds HkkX; ij fuHkZj djrk gS A fookg ds fy, egRoiw.kZ xzg ‘kqdz] cgLifr rFkk eaxy gksrs gSa A tcfd dq.Myh dk lkroka] f}rh;] prqFkZ] iape rFkk v”Ve Hkko rFkk mlds Lokeh xzg fookg ds fy, mRrjnk;h gksrs gSa A T;ksfr”kh; fo/kku esa fookg dk;Z dh flf} gsrq tUe dq.Myh ds lIre Hkko rFkk dkjd xzg dks ns[kk tkrk gS A ysfdu dqaMyh esa f}rh; rFkk ,dkn’k Hkko Hkh fookg esa egRoiw.kZ gksrs gSa A tUe dqaMyh dk lIre Hkko thoulkFkh rFkk lk>snkjh dk gksrk gS A ;g vU; O;fDr;ksa ds lkFk O;fDr ds lEca/k dksa n’kkZrk gS A fookg lEca/kh fo”k; esa Hkh bldh egRoiw.kZ Hkwfedk gksrh gSA fookg lEca/kh ‘kqHkrk dk fopkj ,dkn’k Hkko ls fd;k tkrk gS A f}rh; Hkko dqVqEc rFkk ifjokj dks n’kkZrk gS A iape Hkko dk Hkh fo’ks”k egRo gS ;fn fookg esa izse izlax Hkh ‘kkfey gks A dq.Myh dk f}rh;] lkroka vkSj v”Ve Hkkoksa ls ;g fu/kkZfjr gksrk gS fd fookg tYnh gksxk ;k nsjh ls A Tkkrd dh ‘kknh tYnh gksxh ;k nsjh ls ;g tUedq.Myh esa xzgksa dh fLFkfr ij fuHkZj djrk gS A lIre Hkko ls lEcaf/kr Qyksa dh izkfIr ds fy, yxu rFkk uoes’k dk lg;ksx Hkh vfr vko’;d gS A vr% fookg ds lEca/k esa mijksDr Hkkoksa] muds Lokeh xzgksa] mudh voLFkkvksa rFkk muds vkilh lEca/kksa o O;kogkfjd lEca/kksa dk vakdyu ije vko’;d gS A

fookg esa foyEc ds ;ksx

tc dq.Myh esa ‘kfu dk lEca/k lkroka ?kj] pUnzek ;k lw;Z ls curk gS rks fookg esa foyEc dk ;ksx curk gS A ‘kqdz dk lEca/k tc pUnzek] lw;Z ls curk gS rks Hkh fookg esa foyEc dk ;ksx curk gS A  ;fn ‘kqdz] yxu ;k lkroka ?kj ikidrkZjh ;ksx esa gksrs gSa rks Hkh fookg esa foyEc gksus dh izcy lEHkkouk gksrh gS A ;fn f}rh; ?kj esa odzh xzg gks rks tkrd ‘kknh ds fy, vlQy iz;kl djrk jgrk gS A ‘kfu dk pUnzek ls lEca/k Hkh ‘kknh esa foyEc dk dkj.k gksrk gS A ;fn eaxy tUedq.Myh esa f}rh;] prqFkZ] lkroka] vkBoka] ckjgoka Hkko esa gksrk gS rks ;g ekaxfyd nks”k dh mifLFkfr dks n’kkZrk gS tks fd fookg esa foyEc dk dkj.k gks ldrk gS A tUedq.Myh esa ‘kfu dk lEca/k eaxy ls gksus ij Hkh fookg esa foyEc dk ;ksx curk gS A ;fn ;g ;ksx panz dq.Myh rFkk uoka’k dqaMyh esa Hkh gks rks fookg vo’; gh foyEc ls gksrk gS A blds vfrfjDr vU; ;ksx Hkh gSa tks fd fookg esa foyEc dh vksj ladsr djrs gSa A tSls fd ;fn lIres’k odzh gks eaxy v”Ve Hkko esa gks] ;fn lIres’k fucZy gks rFkk NBosa vkBosa o ckjgosa LFkku esa gks] lIres’k o ‘kfu dh ;qfr gks] ‘kqds o ‘kfu yxu esa gksa vkSj eaxy lIre Hkko esa gks] pUnzek jkgq dh ;qfr lIre Hkko esa gks rFkk lIres’k fucZy gks rks Hkh fookg esa ck/kk,Wa vkrh gSa rFkk fookg foyEc ls gksrk gS A

14 tuojh 1971] 17%50 eFkqjk ‘kknh 19 ucEcj 2002

lIres’k nlosa ?kj esa odzh gksdj uhp gS] pUnzek dsrq ds lkFk gS A ‘kfu dk lEca/k lw;Z rFkk lkrosa ?kj ls cu jgk ls cu jgk gS A

27 flrEcj 1960 12%45 ifV;kyk ‘kknh 30 twu 2005

Tkkrd dh ‘kknh 44 lky 9 eghus 1 fnu ij gqbZ A budh dq.Myh esa nsjh ls fookg ds dbZ ;ksx gSa A ;gkWa ‘kfu dk lEca/k lkrosa ?kj ls] pUnzek ls rFkk lw;Z ls cu jgk gS A eaxy lkrosa ?kj esa fLFkr gksdj ekaxfyd nks”k cuk jgk gS A

‘kh/kz fookg ds ;ksx

‘kh/kz fookg ds fy, tUedq.Myh esa lkrosa ?kj dk Lokeh rFkk ‘kqdz dh fLFkfr ns[kh tkrh gS A tc lkroka ?kj dk Lokeh rFkk ‘kqdz dsUnz ;k frzdksu esa fLFkr gksrs gSa rFkk ‘kqHk xzgksa ds u{krz esa gksrs gSa rks fookg ‘kh/kz gksrk gS A bl fLFkfr esa lkrosa ?kj ij ‘kqHk xzg dh n`f”V gksuh pkfg, blds lkFk gh yxu dk Lokeh dh fLFkfr Hkh etcwr gksuh pkfg, A ‘kqHk xzgksa dh lkrosa ?kj esa mifLFkfr Hkh ‘kh?kz fookg dk ladsr gS A lkFk gh ‘kh/kz fookg ds fy, f}rh;] iape] }kn’k Hkko Hkh fdlh Hkh rjg cqjs izHkko esa ugha gksus pkfg, A blds vfrfjDr vU; ;ksx Hkh gSa tks fd ‘kh?kz fookg dh vksj ladsr djrs gSa A tSls fd ;fn yXus’k o lIres’k ‘kqHk gksa rFkk ferz gksa] ;fn lIres’k ‘kqHk vkSj etcwr gks rFkk f}rh; Hkko esa fLFkr gks vkSj ;fn yxus’k o HkkX;s’k dh n`f”V esa gks] ;fn panzek ‘kqHk gks rFkk lIre Hkko esa fLFkr gks lkFk gh ‘kqHk xzg }kjk n`”V gks rks tkrd dks fookg lq[k ‘kh/kz fey tkrk gS A

18 fnlEcj 1972 4%30 yqf/k;kuk] iatkc ‘kknh 6 flrEcj 1997

bl tkrd dh ‘kknh 24 o”kZ 8 eghus 17 fnu ij gqbZ A bl tUedq.Myh esa lkrosa ?kj dk Lokeh dsUnz esa fLFkr gSa tcfd fookg dkjd HkkX;s’k ds lkFk f}rh; Hkko esa gS A  lkrosa ?kj esa pUnzek fd mifLFkfr Hkh ‘kh/kz fookg ds fy, mRrjnk;h gS A

9 fnlEcj] 1977 11%55 nsox< jktLFkku ‘kknh 26 ebZ 2003

bl tkrd dh ‘kknh 25 o”kZ 5 eghus 14 fnu ij gqbZ A bl tUedq.Myh esa lkrosa ?kj dk Lokeh vkSj dkjd nksuksa dsUnz esa fLFkr gSa A ‘kqdz ;ksxdkjd gS rFkk lIres’k ds lkFk esa gS A

fookg esa foyEc ds mik;

fookg esa foyEc tks fd tUedq.Myh esa cqjs T;ksfr”kh; ;ksxksa ds dkj.k gksrh gS ftUgsa mi;qDr oSfnd earzksa ds }kjk nwj fd;k tk ldrk gSA ;fn fookg esa foyEc dk dkj.k ekaxfyd nks”k gS rks eaxy xzg ds earzksa dk tki fd;k tk ldrk gS A blds lkFk gh ekaxfyd nks”k ds mik; Hkh fd;s tk ldrs gSa A fookg esa foyEc ds dkj.kksa ds fuokj.k ds fy, ‘kqdz o xq: nksuksa xzgksa dks izHkkoh o etcwr cuk;k tkrk gS A la{ksi esa fookg dh izfd;k dks izkjEHk djus ls igys oj rFkk o/kq dh tUedqaMyh feyku cgqr vko’;d gS A vPNk gksxk ;fn fdlh fo}ku T;ksfr”kh dks tUedqMyh fn[kkdj fookg esa ck/kd xzg ;k nks”k dks tkudj mldk fuokj.k gsrq mi;qDr mik; fd;s tk;sa A ‘kqHk fookg ds fy, xq: vkjk/; gSa og czkgE.k gSa rFkk HkkX; fu/kkZjd Hkh gS vr% mudh vkjk/kuk djuh pkfg, A T;ksfr”kh; n`f”V ls tc fookg ;ksx curs gSa] vkSj ml le; fookg Vkyus ls fookg esa cgqr foyEc gks tkrh gS A vr% mi;qDr le; ij gh fookg lEca/kh fu.kZ; ysa vU;Fkk fookg esa foyEc vR;ar faprk dk dkj.k cu ldrk gS A oSls fookg esa foyEc dk ,d fo’ks”k dkj.k tUedq.Myh esa ekaxfyd ;ksx dk gksuk Hkh gksrk gS A buds fookg ds ;ksx izk;% fu’fpr o”kksZa esa curs gSa A mi;qDr le; ij T;ksfr”kh; ijke’kZ ds }kjk ftu ;qod&;qofr;ksa ds fookg esa foyac gks jgk gks og muds xzgksa dh fLFkfr Kkr djds fookg ds mi;qDr ;ksx ds ckjs esa tku ldrs gSa A